The Closet Slut

In the very few conversations I choose to have with my FBs, one actually said something to me that sparked my attention. In a casual conversation with my best friend he mentioned that I  was a "closet slut", and further went on to explain how that was actually a compliment. Now in my world, being called any variation of a "slut" doesn't deserve a thank you, but I guess it did in Kyle's eyes

Now let me attempt to break down what the definition of a closet slut is: someone who is not going to sleep around with any man she sees, and gives off the impression that she is innocent. However,  "when she gets her hands on someone, she unleashes on him".

I couldn't help but laugh a little at his explaination for the hint of truth to it all. I guess I have to respect his honesty and take into account that he first hand expirienced my "unleashing", but a pang of confusion still clinged on.

Do all men look for a closet slut?

I mean, even Kyle went on to say that it is not a bad thing to be one. Is it the best of both worlds? Do men want a girl that is sweet and coy on the outside, but a raging vixen on the inside?

The even more interesting thing is that he refered to my best friend as "the closet" to my "slutiness". She was the one holding me back from just waving my sex drive for any man to pick up. She kept me grounded and locked down. I guess I owe her a big thank you or else my title would have been missing the "closet" portion of it, and that definiely can't be overseen as a compliment

So is being a closet slut a bad thing?

I guess ss long as you have a sturdy closet with some tough hinges, you can get away with it quite easily